So many girl find it very difficult to approach a guy they like or even start a conversation with them, it happens, socialization can't be that easy for everybody.
In this writeup, I will be addressing the ways you can follow for a successful catchup with the guy you like. Remember, knowing much to say in a conversation with a guy is quite different from getting him to like you back, it take a step further than that. Knowing how to talk to a guy will make things easy for you around other guys, not just the one you like, the same mindset runs among guys.
Firstly, every guy loves to associate with a girl that's popular, knows how to talk and is desired by all guys out there.
Keep a smiling face.
While talking to a guy, whether he is alone or with his friends, you might want to smile often. This doesn't mean you start laughing hard and loose your standard. Just don't keep an angry face, you can't be moody or show that you're not comfortable. Smiling makes you look charming and the guy will be more relaxed to talk to you too.
A little showoff
This is not being harsh or rude, you can be shy to showoff. Some expression makes you look well packaged. Being coy will do the magic more. The way you touch your hair and sit or stand shows a lot how confident and smart you're. Guys like a girl will a little more swag and still intelligent on how to package herself. Behaving timid will pour salt on the wound, so you might want to add up to your game. Good English and well articulated will go a long way to show how cute you're.
Show Appreciation
You shouldn't be kneeling down for any guy for giving you his time to talk to him. When I say appreciation, I mean being grateful to the guy. Modesty won't be bad for any guy, in fact, they love a modest lady.
Body contact
Sitting on his lap is out of the question in this stage. When I say body contact, I mean a small touch on the arms while the conversation is going on. This should be done casually, not showing it was intentional, let it be while you're teasing him or vice versa. You can also touch his shoulder or place you palm on his laps and forget it there. This is a little flirting but it works.
Make him your man
Men like it when a girl puts her confidence on them. Let him feel like he is the boss of the situation without necessarily making yourself inferior. Most ladies have lost their man just because they want to be competing superiority with him. So in the middle of a walk, grab his hand and cross a group of boys. Let him feel that he is protecting you. Gives him more confident to ride along with you.
Don't use foul language
Guys really get tired over girls who are regular with foul words. Being a bitch won't help you get a guy to like you, maybe yes, if he is a gangster. But no gentle guy wants a bitch as his girl. Badmouthing other people won't also help you in this matter, a lot of gossips about your friends, neighbors and ordinary people will turn the guy off.
Be Smart
Being smart is a combination of being annoying and lovable. Guys will complain about how hard you're to deal with, but they won't leave you. Its natural for guys to fall in love with ladies who gives them tough time, so don't go easy on him. Make him have to think about your next move and what you're thinking. Be smart and you will win his heart. You can play a prank on him, hide his phone or watch, all these petty things works magic on the guy.
Don't be rude
No guy wants a girl who's rude and harsh either to him or to his friends or family. Learn how to be polite and nice. Even if you're not naturally, pretend to be a good person. Help out in some stuff he does, or preferably, offer to help.
Be a tough girl
You can't be too cheap and expect a guy to waste his time on you. You must play hard to get, even if it's for a little period of time. It shows how you're of a higher quality than others girls around.
Respect
Respecting a guy cannot be overemphasized, once you start insulting a guy, you've lost you place in his life. So in as much as you like him, respect his decisions and be mindful the way you talk back at him.
Guys generally like a hardworking girl, a polite girl, intelligent and presentable. Goodluck!
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