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Most guys find it very difficult to approach a girl they like for the first time. Reason for this is not far fetched, either they lack what to tell the girl to keep her company or are too shy to make a move. 
    In this writeup, I will teach you some tricks make wooing girls easy for you. Before I continue, confidence and high self-esteem will take you a long way in the ride, remember this is not the same as being arrogant. In addition to that, you have to be appearing smart and neat even an English adage says, "you're addressed the way you dress", you wouldn't like to be insulted for dressing wayward. 
Now, let's go down to the main objects;

1. Seek Permission To Interrupt:
It is polite and good manners to seek permission before interrupting a girl walking, sitting or standing by her own, without first seeking permission to do so. 
An easy way to seek permission from a girl can be
        "excuse me miss, can I have a moment to     speak with you, promise not to take much of your time?" 
Once she see you've given her the respect needed, she will grant you the go ahead sign.

2. Introduce yourself:
Don't waste her time and go to introduction. Introducing yourself will give her a clue of how matured you're. Your identity comes first before the compliment you want to give her. You can go with, 
    "Hi, my name is Henry, I like your dress, it fits your skin quite well".
You may want to put more sauce to your introduction by saying further, " I have spent my entire life waiting to meet a beautiful girl like you". If she similes and look away or downward, you just hit the right spot. Ride on!!!

3. Keep her busy with more about yourself. 
Research have shown that people are always more interested in similar persons. Persons who like what they like such as same music, or food, or sports, or book etc. In this stage, you can tell the girl about your school or work briefly, not in details please. She might get bored at this point so make it snappy and watch her body language to know where to stop. Talking a little about yourself feels good when both of you have introduced yourself and she is relax with you talking to her. Don't make her feel you're forcing yourself on her, be smart enough to listen to her own side of the conversation. You can discuss what both of you love in this stage like books you both have read, like movies you both have seen, like sport you both like. This will created more connection between you both.

4. Learn to use compliment.
Any man that knows how to use the right compliment on a girl, will go a long way to her heart. Girls generally like to be complimented; PJ her hairstyle, on her dressing, on her shape and skin color, on the little things she fixed on her body like her eye lashes, her lips and any little thing you can observe. I will not advice you to be a pervert in this stage or being romantic you might ruin your moment.  
Some compliments you can use below;
*I like the way you understand me.
*You know, I really like how you're honest about your view in life.
*I feel you're above other girls in maturity.
*You have a grant sense of humor.
*I really like the way you talk
*I won't forget this day I met you. 
*I am so happy I met you today.
*I really like you dressing truth be told.
Etc
In this stage, you will also show her that you enjoyed her company and would love to meet her next time. Remember you're wasting her time even though she is enjoying it a little while. So try and roundoff whatever you're saying at this point. 

At last, don't forget to ask for her number. Its very vital if you want to see her next, communication is the key to every relationship. So before you end the chat, "Roseline, I will like to meet you next time, maybe you can give me your digits please. You can also ask her out in a polite way, " But Roseline, I was thinking, maybe we can grab a bottle of coke at My Biggs next week Sunday, what do you think about it?". 

My advice, Don't text her, call her instead, its shows maturity. 
Goodluck Fellas. 
Yours Sir liberty Esq.

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